At my school we have something called success netting someone. in general getting success netted means that someone thought that there was worry or cause about you and that they thought you needed help. For example, say my dad just died, someone would fill out a form and have me success netted. All my teachers would be informed of whats going on and all the right people who will need to help me will be there. See being success netted isn't bad, but it isn't good. Once your success netted you end up pretty much being watched 24/7. I myself have been success netted 4 times. 3 of those was unknowingly. The problem in the system is sometimes you don't want or need help but other people think that you do.
What I'm getting at here is that there is a major rift in my SOL group because our supposed friend Katie is success netting us all. She has us open up our feelings to her and tell her our personal stories and then she goes and reports us. She claims to be are friend but when she leaves were just the SOL kids that she has to look after. Were like a burden to her. Honestly Katie could leave, yea it would suck but we would all still get along just fine.
I'm not trying to bash her because I do like her but its just the fact that I tell her these things in confidence. I know she thinks shes doing the right thing but she really isn't. She cant be both a SOL and a friend. She has to choose because its already causing some huge problems in our group. No one wants to hang out with a nark.
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